The beauty of ocean sailing lies in its ability to strip away the noise of modern life and focus on the essentials: keeping the boat and crew safe, and reaching our destination. For centuries, sailors have left behind the land, its politics, and religious debates, and embraced the simplicity of survival and teamwork on the open ocean. Historically, controversial topics like politics and religion have been considered “forbidden subjects” at sea. Onboard, we’re not defined by our divisions; we are simply crew members, individual human beings working together toward a common goal.
But in today’s world, it’s impossible to ignore that we live in an increasingly polarized society. Everywhere we look, there are clashing opinions and movements—each passionately defended, each opposed by an equally passionate counter-movement. From politics to social issues, environmental activism to cultural debates, the world is divided. Movements like LGBTQ+ rights, climate activism, MeToo, and Black Lives Matter are opposed by equally fervent critics. Wars, anti-immigrant sentiments, anti-Semitism, and cultural phobias are all fuelled by propaganda, much like they have been throughout history.
Polarization isn’t new. It’s a continuous part of human history, at the root of wars and suffering. But despite these divisions, life at sea offers an opportunity to rise above the noise. At sea, differences in culture, beliefs, or politics become irrelevant when compared to the shared goal of keeping the boat afloat and reaching safe harbor.
Sailing with Those from the “Other Side”
In my 17 years as a professional sailor, I’ve encountered people from many different backgrounds and cultures. I’ve sailed with many students holding opposing views: Russians who believed the Dutch government kills elderly citizens, Saudis justifying the killing of a journalist, Israelis with hardline views, wealthy criminal Nigerians, and even neo-Nazis. But none of these differences have ever been a problem at sea. I don’t allow political or religious differences to be discussed onboard. Instead, we focus on the task at hand—sailing—and base our opinions about each other on what we see and experience while working together.
That’s the beauty of sailing: it requires cooperation, trust, and mutual respect. Differences fade away when you’re in the middle of the ocean, reliant on each other to navigate through storms, hoist sails, and maintain the safety of the crew. The ocean doesn’t care who you are or what you believe. It demands respect, attention, and teamwork. These are the things that matter at sea, not politics or ideology.
When Lines are Crossed
That being said, there are times when I do need to step in. The only situations that have ever led me to ask someone to leave the boat have involved clear disrespect, misogyny, or bullying. In these rare cases, the individual’s behavior posed a threat to the team dynamic and to the mutual respect that is so vital onboard.
In two instances, I asked individuals to leave because they crossed the line, not because of their views or nationality, but because of how they treated others. Respect for every crew member is non-negotiable, and it’s my responsibility as captain to ensure that all sailors onboard feel safe and valued.
Guilt by Association?
Can we condemn someone solely because of the country they come from, especially if their government is committing atrocities? I don’t believe we should. If an individual isn’t actively supporting their regime, we have no right to judge them based on where they were born or live. Each person should be seen for who they are, not for the actions of their government as sadly has happened far too often throughout history.
Conclusion: Leaving Divides on Land
When we step aboard a yacht and head out to sea, we leave behind the world’s polarization. The ocean demands focus, discipline, and unity. Onboard, we work together as a team, setting aside differences and embracing what binds us: our shared goals and the journey ahead.
It’s a rare and precious experience in a world where division seems to touch every aspect of our lives. Sailing reminds us that, despite our differences, we can still come together as human beings—working side by side, relying on each other, and navigating toward a common destination.
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